surrender in union

1 child is in union with mother, and so drenched in her love ,and mother too, vice versa

so both are in surrender to each other, 

mother commands child just obeys

child commands , mother just obeys

2 as long as  this unity prevails, wonderful things happen between them love flowing to and from 

as child slowly grows up to know the world, a gentle growth of separation starts happening, as child innocently gaining his individuality, , and at times starts asserting his wishes, 

as growth take place, love tapers, surrender vanishes , troubles crop up, paradise lost  

so the solution is again is to gain back that unity , with mother, ie the creator god, 

in samadhi total surrender happens , and  paradise regained

man and god in love with each other, and each in surrender to other 

yes, yes yes

god surrenders to the devotee

yatheenam brahma bhavathi sarathi, ......,, god is bhaktha paraadheena 

key is the union